The Truth

There are a lot of "advice columns" out there with really bad advice.... here's the truth.

QUESTION:
I'm seeing this guy, he knows I'm a virgin and he told me he wouldn't pressure me into anything, his words were ''I won't even mention it because I'm a firm believer in losing it to someone you really love.'' Does this mean he doesn't like me as much as I thought? And what do I do when I feel ready?

ANSWER:
wow, you got it all twisted.

he has respect for you! i dont know why you believe that someone liking you means that they need to be physical with you, but that is not the case at all. he respects you and thinks that your virginity is a special thing that should not be given away unless it is to someone you love, thats not a negative thing. him saying that probably means he likes you more than you think.

what to do when you are ready, that i dont think i can answer.. simply because, im very very old school to when it comes to this type of thing and think that your virginity should be saved for “the one” and when you are married and what not. i know thats a very unpopular opinion but thats the way i feel.

TRUTH:
wow, you BOTH have it all twisted.

This is a classic line! "I'm a firm believer in losing it to someone you love" Really?? you fall for that?? He says this so he can quickly tell you he loves you knowing you're already prepped to think this declaration of "love" will make you think you're ready. Trust me, every guy out there is going to pressure you at some point. YOU need to be strong and confident in your ability to say "No" if you don't feel ready.