Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Advice of the Day
#37 Never use the word "friend" with someone who you want to be more than just that.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Texts from the romantic
Boys are always texting me sappy things about the girls they love. I figure you all deserve to know that most boys do have a little Nicholas Sparks in them.
"I am perfectly happy being her friend, in fact I love it... I just have this incredible urge to kiss her, that doesn't go away... and this feeling that we would be perfect together."
Texts from the romantic
Boys are always texting me sappy things about the girls they love. I figure you all deserve to know that most boys do have a little Nicholas Sparks in them.
"I looked at her as a friend and then realized I love her."
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
The Book.
Here is a preview of the photo art for my first advice book coming out Summer 2012! The advice will be told in story form with photos following the story!
Texts from the romantic
Boys are always texting me sappy things about the girls they love. I figure you all deserve to know that most boys do have a little Nicholas Sparks in them.
"Everything that happens to her matters to me."
The Truth
There are a lot of "advice columns" out there with really bad advice.... here's the truth.
QUESTION:
Can a mature 16 year old and a fairly immature nearly 20 year old have a successful relationship? :/
ANSWER:
well i suppose the obvious answer is yes?
but since you are doubting your relationship because you are insecure about your relationship for whatever the reason is, it would be hard for anyone to make that work.
TRUTH:
Why isn't the obvious answer NO!?!? It should be. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! I mean... a) You're 16.... he's 20! and b) there is no such thing as a mature 16 year old. and c) all 20 year old boys are immature! that doesn't mean they should be dating down! Sheesh... does NO ONE have common sense??
QUESTION:
Can a mature 16 year old and a fairly immature nearly 20 year old have a successful relationship? :/
ANSWER:
well i suppose the obvious answer is yes?
but since you are doubting your relationship because you are insecure about your relationship for whatever the reason is, it would be hard for anyone to make that work.
TRUTH:
Why isn't the obvious answer NO!?!? It should be. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! I mean... a) You're 16.... he's 20! and b) there is no such thing as a mature 16 year old. and c) all 20 year old boys are immature! that doesn't mean they should be dating down! Sheesh... does NO ONE have common sense??
My Boy of the Moment - Jeremy Irvine
Hopefully you've all seen the amazing Oscar Nominated War Horse and that's why this name is familiar to you. But in that movie they make him look like some 14 year old boy when in reality he's this GORGEOUS 22 year old model! Luckily we will see him act and look more his age in the upcoming movie Now Is Good with Dakota Fanning.
The Truth
There are a lot of "advice columns" out there with really bad advice.... here's the truth.
QUESTION:
I'm seeing this guy, he knows I'm a virgin and he told me he wouldn't pressure me into anything, his words were ''I won't even mention it because I'm a firm believer in losing it to someone you really love.'' Does this mean he doesn't like me as much as I thought? And what do I do when I feel ready?
ANSWER:
wow, you got it all twisted.
he has respect for you! i dont know why you believe that someone liking you means that they need to be physical with you, but that is not the case at all. he respects you and thinks that your virginity is a special thing that should not be given away unless it is to someone you love, thats not a negative thing. him saying that probably means he likes you more than you think.
what to do when you are ready, that i dont think i can answer.. simply because, im very very old school to when it comes to this type of thing and think that your virginity should be saved for “the one” and when you are married and what not. i know thats a very unpopular opinion but thats the way i feel.
TRUTH:
wow, you BOTH have it all twisted.
This is a classic line! "I'm a firm believer in losing it to someone you love" Really?? you fall for that?? He says this so he can quickly tell you he loves you knowing you're already prepped to think this declaration of "love" will make you think you're ready. Trust me, every guy out there is going to pressure you at some point. YOU need to be strong and confident in your ability to say "No" if you don't feel ready.
QUESTION:
I'm seeing this guy, he knows I'm a virgin and he told me he wouldn't pressure me into anything, his words were ''I won't even mention it because I'm a firm believer in losing it to someone you really love.'' Does this mean he doesn't like me as much as I thought? And what do I do when I feel ready?
ANSWER:
wow, you got it all twisted.
he has respect for you! i dont know why you believe that someone liking you means that they need to be physical with you, but that is not the case at all. he respects you and thinks that your virginity is a special thing that should not be given away unless it is to someone you love, thats not a negative thing. him saying that probably means he likes you more than you think.
what to do when you are ready, that i dont think i can answer.. simply because, im very very old school to when it comes to this type of thing and think that your virginity should be saved for “the one” and when you are married and what not. i know thats a very unpopular opinion but thats the way i feel.
TRUTH:
wow, you BOTH have it all twisted.
This is a classic line! "I'm a firm believer in losing it to someone you love" Really?? you fall for that?? He says this so he can quickly tell you he loves you knowing you're already prepped to think this declaration of "love" will make you think you're ready. Trust me, every guy out there is going to pressure you at some point. YOU need to be strong and confident in your ability to say "No" if you don't feel ready.
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