So, there's this boy I like, but he's a smoker and I've always said I don't date smokers.. but I really like him. What should I do?
Know your deal-breakers. Is smoking one of them? Meaning, would you marry a smoker? Not saying after the first couple dates you should be thinking about marriage. But before dating anyone you should clearly know your deal-breakers. Whether it be smoking, drugs, unemployment, location, kids, religion etc... you should know what they are. Deal-breakers shouldn't be little things, these are big life altering things. And give yourself a 3 date rule. If a guy checks off even one of your deal-breakers by the third date you shouldn't go out with him again. So, to answer your question, is smoking a deal-breaker? If so, then as much as you like him, you should not be dating him.
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